How to Stop Masturbation Addiction

Masturbation gives temporary happiness and destroys eternal happiness. So you have to save yourself from this kind of big sin forever.

Today I am going to discuss an important topic Which is How to Stop Masturbation Addiction and what about it in Islam?:- Many people are involved in dirty acts like Masturbation. After masturbating excessively, when they realize that they have made a big mistake and their life is going to be ruined, then they start looking for solutions to stop dirty acts like masturbation.

Countless people are involved in masturbation and want to know the best solution to get rid of dirty acts like masturbation and those who have entered youth also want to get rid of it from the beginning of life.

After reading today’s article to the end, you will know about the harm of masturbation and also know the best solution of avoiding it.

What is masturbation?

Masturbation is ejaculating through the hands in various ways. Sometimes without hands and through various objects.

Why masturbate?

The boys and girls After becoming adults, their sexual desire or need increases in their bodies, so they are not able to control themselves and they get involved in masturbation.

What about Masturbation in Islam?

Almighty Allah says in Qur’an,

“And those who guard their chastity (private part) without their wives or owned maids; In this case they not condemned. Those who desire anything other than this are transgressors”. (Surah Al-Muminun 5-7)

Ibn-e-Katheer (Rh) said: Imam Shafi (Rh) and all those who agreed with him gave evidence of the Haram of Masturbation with this verse.

Masturbation is haram for all men or women. This is one of the Big(Kabira)sins.

Such a person is cursed in the hadith. In a hadith narrated by Faqih Abul Laich Samarkand (رحمة الله عليه عليه) the punishment of seven sinners is mentioned, one of them is the person who makes love with his hands(who does masturbation).

On the Day of judgment, Allah will not show mercy to him (the person who masturbation) and will not purify him, but he will be ordered to be taken directly to Hell. (Tambihul Gafilin, 137 pages)

Imam Ahmad Reza (رحمة الله عليه عليه) said in a question and answer: “Masturbate is one of the Big (Kabira) sins. If do again and again then become a big sinner and Fasiq.

He also said that, If a masturbator dies without repentance, he will rise on the Day of judgment in such his hands are pregnant. Due to this, he will be in front of a large gathering of people on the day of Qiamah! He will be ashamed” (Fatwa’e Rajbiyyah, Volume 22, Page 244)

From the above discussion, we clearly understand that masturbation is Haram in Islam which is an act of big sin. So masturbation should be avoided.

What is the harm of masturbation?

There are many harmful aspects of masturbation. Many types of problems arise due to masturbation. Once it becomes a habit it can destroy all youth in his life.

two (2) types of problems arise due to masturbation which are:

• Mental problems
• Physical problems

Mental problems:

Boys are mentally broken due to masturbation. and Afraid to get married due to premature ejaculation. They are always consumed by anxiety.

Excessive masturbation puts so much stress on the brain that their behavior is disordered. As a result, their lives become difficult and terrible.

Physical problems:

Masturbation is physically Harmful. it’s most reflected in our real life. As a result of excessive masturbation, the body becomes bad or sick in a few days. Health appearance is ruined.

So it is very important to know the harmful aspects of masturbation and the ways to avoid it. Some examples of the physical harm caused by masturbation are-

(1) The biggest problem people will face with excessive masturbation is premature ejaculation. and the inability to make the wife happy. Premature ejaculation results in the husband being unable to satisfy his wife completely. As a result, there is unrest in married life.

(2) Excessive masturbation results in less sperm count and thinner semen. According to science, if a man has less than 20 million sperm in his semen, then that man will be unable to be a father.

(3) Excessive masturbation will cause Eye problems and Distant objects will look blurry.

(4) As a result of masturbation, the power of memory gradually decreases. then they will have trouble memorizing or remembering anything.+

(5) Headache, eye pain, and various other problems occur.

(6) With a little excitement, fluid comes out of the penis. As a result, the body becomes weak.

Some of the harms of excessive masturbation are mentioned. Now I am going to discuss How to stop masturbation.

How to stop masturbation

(1) Marriage:

There is no ‘Quick Cure’ for masturbation other than marriage. It can be said that marriage is the only way that can completely free a man from the addiction of masturbation. If the boy or girl is suitable for marriage, then get married.

Islamic society makes marriage easy and capitalism makes marriage difficult which we see in our society. As marriage became difficult, promiscuity increased in society, and perverted sexual behavior including masturbation spread.

Marriage can free people completely from the temptation of immorality because marriage is the best arrangement for love between man and woman.

Narrated Abdullah: He said, we were with the Prophet (ﷺ) while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “O young people! Whoever among you able to marry, they should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.” (Bukhari, Chapter – Kitabun-Nikah)

In another hadith,

The Prophet (ﷺ) said – “There is nothing like a marriage for mutual love for two.” (Silsilah Sahihah-624)

So you can never be satisfied by masturbation, but it will increase your thirst. So masturbation must be avoided.

If you are able, you should marry, otherwise, you should fast. There is no other way to reduce sexual arousal. If it had, then the evidence would have been found in the Hadith Sharif.

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(2) Fasting:

Fasting is better for those who can not get married. Our beloved Prophet (ﷺ) said, “whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.” (Bukhari, Chapter – Kitabun-Nikah)

(3) Perform Salah on time:

It should be a habit to Perform five times Salah (prayer) a day, then whenever this dirty thought is in your mind, a voice will arise in your heart that, you will pray so you will not do such a horrible thing.

Indeed, Salah prevents wrongdoing and obscenity. – Surah Ankabut (29): 45

(4) Keep yourself busy:

Always try to keep yourself busy. Then the thought of masturbation will never come to mind. Elders say one sentence, a lazy mind is the devil’s factory. So always try to keep yourself busy with something. If there is no work then try various creativity.

(5) Not being alone:

When you are alone and not doing anything then your mind maybe wants to masturbate or have bad thoughts. So try to always be around people.

(6) Avoid dirty video & picture:

Stay away from watching dirty videos and dirty pictures. You should completely stop watching. if automatically show on your screen any dirty Video & Picture then quickly skip it.

Conclusion:

Masturbation gives temporary happiness and destroys eternal happiness. So you have to save yourself from this big sin forever. If you can’t control yourself, get married. Your life will be beautiful. Otherwise, masturbation will destroy your life, youth.

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