After the marriage proposal comes, If you want to make the right decision about your marriage. Then you should Istikhara for marriage.
Today I am going to discuss an important topic which is “Istikhara for Marriage“. A very important article for those who are not yet married.
A sacred relationship is created through marriage. And that relationship stays beautiful and strong until death if the spouse is good. Before marriage, many worry about whether their mate will be better. Are you worried about this?
If you are worried about this then you can find your beautiful solution through Istikhara. Today I will tell you the details of how to do istekhara about marriage through this article. Then all your worries will be gone and you will find a beautiful life partner. Inshallah
The importance of marriage in Islam:
It is very important for all of us to know the importance of marriage in Islam. In the joy of marriage, people may forget about its importance and purpose. Let’s know a little about it.
Almighty Allah says in Holy Qur’an,
“And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them, and he put between you love and compassion: Indeed there are signs for a people who reflect”. (Sura- Ar-room 21)
In this verse, Allah (swt) tells us that He created us in pairs so that we can be a source of love and comfort for each other.
In another verse, Allah (SWT) Says,
“They (wives) are clothing for you and you are clothing for them” (Al-Baqarah-187)
This proves that Allah (SWT) has created us to protect each other as clothing protects our bodies. In the same way, they protect each other’s dignity.
Narrated Abdullah: He said, we were with the Prophet (ﷺ) while we were young and had no wealth whatever.
“So Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “O young people! Whoever among you able to marry, they should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty, and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.”(Bukhari, Chapter – Titabun-Nikah)
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) Said,
“Marriage is one of my sunnah, and anybody leaves my sunnah he is not mine”.Ibn-Majah 1846
I hope you understand the importance and purpose of marriage in the light of the Holy Quran and Hadith.
Let’s try to know how to do Istikhara for marriage.
Istikhara for Marriage:
After the marriage proposal comes, If you want to make the right decision about your marriage. Then you should Istikhara for marriage. Almighty Allah only knows best what is good for You and what is not good for You. you do not know what is good for you and what is bad for you. for that you should seek the guidance of Almighty Allah by doing Istikhara.
How to do Istikhara for Marriage?
Finally, I am going to teach you how to do istikhara.
- Perform wadu.
- Perform two cycles (raka’) Salah.
- Praise to Allah.
- Recite Darood upon the Prophet.
- Recite Dua of istikhara.
O, Allah! I seek help from Your knowledge, And I seek ability from Your Might and I ask for Your great mercy. You are able and I am not able. You know and I don’t know and You know all the unseen.
O, Allah! If You know that this Marriage is good for my religion and my subsistence also, Then You ordain it for me and make it easy for me to get, And then bless me in it,
and if You know that this Marriage is dangerous to me In my religion and subsistence also, Then keep it down from me and let me be down from it. And whatever is good for me ordain for me, And make me satisfied with that). (Sahi Bukhari-1093)
This istikhara You can do only for marriage. Some of the wording changes have been made because it is an istikhara for marriage. And some sentences were not added because not required for marriage. If you want to do istikhara for other tasks then Click Here.
After the completion of istikhara:
After finishing the dua, you will fall asleep and keep your face toward the Kaaba (Qibla) without talking to anyone. After waking up, the mind will feel the result wherever it will be, or where it will be interesting. It is good for you.
It is not necessary that you get a dream even the If you get The signs from the dreams then it’s very good. If in the dream one sees whiteness or greenness then one understands that marriage is better for you.
If in the dream one sees redness or blackness, then understand that marriage is not better for you.
I have Discussed Clearly about Istikhara for Marriage if you want to know about others Istikhar then read relatet Artical “Istikhara how to pray”
The istikhara is a Dua that, Allah guides you towards that which is best for you. If you do the istikhara of guidance with the proper manners, then Allah will make events unfold in the direction that is the best for you in the world and hereafter.
Q: What time should Istikhara be done?
An: Some scholars recommend performing istikhara prayer for all that is good every day.
Q: How long is Istikhara marriage?
An: This is important thing to know that, sometimes it takes only once to get the answer and sometimes it takes longer. If you want to know in detail then click here.
Q: What should I recite to get married?
An: The one who wishes to attract a good marriage proposal can recite two Rakat Salah (Nafil) and recite Durood Shareef 11 times. After that recite 34 times Allahu Akbar, 33 times Alhamdulillah, 33 times Subhanallah It’s called Tasbih Fatimi Zehra (Salamullahi alaihi) and then recite Durood Shareef 11. Then pray to Almighty Allah.